Here is finally this famous belt dildo without harness, it’s the Strap-on Me Vibrating Bendable! Indeed, since its launch, I followed this product from far, in order to see if this one will be released on the market. I was even contacted to talk about it before its release, especially during its launch campaign. But, I preferred to wait a bit before it was released in order to ask a partner to review it for you! In the end, espaceplaisir sent me the product as a thank you for our partnership, without any obligation to review it! But, as you already know, if you are here, it’s because I decided to review it!

It has been a long time since an article of this kind was published on the website. The last ones were the Share from Fun Factory and the Share XL. But also, the ShareVibe, a vibrating version and the Feeldoe from Tantus, which also has a vibrating capsule. But this time, we have a real belt dildo without harness, which also vibrates, but not only! Whether it is for the practice of Strap-On (between two women) or pegging (between a man and a woman), it is a sextoy that will help you to realize this practice and to stimulate both partners! Here is our Strap-on Me Vibrating Bendable review!

Strap-on Me Vibrating Bendable packaging

As always, we start with the box. This one is rectangular, white, with the product in photo on the front face. We find behind, the information related to the product, but also the three existing models. Yes, I will talk about it a little bit further.

Once the box is opened, we discover the Strap-on Me Vibrating Bendable in a plastic mold. Then, we discover a small manual, a USB charging cable with a small label on it not to lose it and find it easily.

Then, we have a satin storage pouch with a remote control that will allow us to control the vibrations of the strapless dildo! Too bad for the plastic mold, but we have a pouch, it is still not bad for a product like this.

Strap-on Me Vibrating Bendable physical details

It’s true that when you see the Strap-on Me Vibrating Bendable in the picture on the packaging and even more so, once it’s out of the box, there’s no real doubt about the purpose of this product! It looks like other dildos of this kind, like the ones I mentioned at the beginning of the review. We find the basic concept, that is to say, a kind of belt dildo without belt, nor harness. This one is composed of two distinct parts, a bulb which will be maintained in the vagina and the other part, the dildo, of semi-realistic form, will be intended to be inserted in the vagina or the anus of the other partner, with a rather pronounced glans to stimulate G and/or P spots!

A bulb that adapts to the morphology

We can see that the bulb is egg-shaped, which should allow to apply some pressure on the G-spot and that the part in contact with the clitoris is molded to fit the body morphology. We will see if it is the case during our tests. If we look carefully, we also notice that the part with the bulb is flexible and can apply several different positions of the egg, to suit everyone! In fact, we can bend the bulb to place it as we want. It’s really well done!

The remote control

Since this is the remote control version, of course you have a wireless remote control to operate the Strap-on Me Vibrating Bendable! This one is silver-gray, not too small, not too big and rectangular in shape. On the top, there are 5 buttons, three linked to the three present motors and two others with the “+” and “-” signs. We will see a little further on what each button is used for. Moreover, compared to the non-vibrating version, we can see a reflective part in ABS plastic, just at the base of the dildo that gives a little more luxury to the product. We can also notice the presence of a small “Power” button on the right side of the Strap-On Me, which will turn on the latter.

Strap-On Me Vibrating Bendable size

First of all, you should know that the Strap-on Me Vibrating Bendable comes in three different sizes, both for the bulb part inserted in the vagina, but also for the shaft. For my part, I opted for the L size, which seems to me to be the most appropriate to our desires. However, here are the three models and their respective dimensions to choose the model that suits you best. For the vibrating model, the one I am testing, there is no S size, because there would not be enough space to insert the three motors inside.

M size

  • Insertable length of bulb: 8 cm (3.14″)
  • Insertable diameter of the bulb: 3.7 cm (1.45″)
  • Insertable length of the dildo: 16 cm (6.29″)
  • Insertable diameter of the dildo: 3.2 cm (1.25″) (at the widest point)

L size

  • Insertable length of bulb: 8 cm (3.14″)
  • Insertable diameter of the bulb : 3.8 cm (1.49″)
  • Insertable length of the dildo: 16.5 cm (6.49″)
  • Insertable diameter of the dildo: 3.6 cm (1.41″) (at the widest point)

XL size

  • Insertable length of bulb: 8 cm (3.14″)
  • Insertable diameter of the bulb : 3.8 cm (1.49″)
  • Insertable length of the dildo: 16 cm (6.29″)
  • Insertable diameter of the dildo: 3.7 cm (1.45″) (at the widest point)

Other details of the Strap-on Me Vibrating Bendable

When it comes to color choices, you should know that the Strap-on Me Vibrating Bendable comes in three versions. You can find it in beige, for a color close to the skin of a Caucasian person, but also in black or purple. On our side, we received the purple version! Attention, don’t ask me why, but the XL version is only available in purple! For the weight, I confess that I didn’t find this information. It is not very heavy, less than a Share XL from Fun Factory and a bit more than a Tantus Feeldoe.

Strap-on Me Vibrating Bendable materials

Indicated as being made of 100% medical grade silicone, I disagree. Indeed, on the silicone part, there is a large majority, but not 100%. Indeed, we can see that a reflective part at the base of the dildo part is made of ABS plastic. Moreover, the remote control is also made of ABS plastic! So it is not a product made of 100% silicone. However, the silicone present is of medical quality, soft and silky and does not contain phthalates.

When you touch it, you realize that it is really soft and that the silicone doesn’t catch dust very much. When I took out the ShareXL, the ShareVibe and the Feeldoe, all three were full of dust and you can clearly see the difference between the Strap-on Me Vibrating Bendable and these ones.

Strap-on Me Vibrating Bendable use

To use this Strap-on Me Vibrating Bendable, there are many things to know! First of all, if you are going to use it for pegging, I invite you to read the pegging guide on the website (french website), as well as the articles on how to start pegging and the positions that can be used for this practice (french website). This will allow you to better understand this sexual practice. But that’s not all you need to know about the Strap-on Me, so let’s see everything you need to know about it to use it properly.

However, you should know that there are two versions of this product. One vibrating, the one I am presenting to you and the other not. You must not confuse the two! The version here is the Strap-on Me Vibrating Bendable while the non-vibrating version is called Strap-on Me Bendable.

How to charge the Strap-on Me Vibrating Bendable ?

To charge your strapless dildo, you will have to be patient. Indeed, after having connected the jack part on the dildo and the other part, on a USB plug or a power adapter, you have to wait 4 hours for it to be fully charged! Yes 4 hours! It is huge I think, but at the same time, with three motors, it is understandable. But, I find that it is all the same long. Especially since the autonomy is 45 minutes afterwards.

It’s enough for a pegging or strap-on session, but the ratio is not really good between charging time and autonomy. On the other hand, the Strap-on Me Vibrating Bendable stops by itself after 10 minutes if you don’t use it! It’s always a good thing to save the batteries.

How to handle and use it?

Of course, you have two ways to handle this harness, well, to use it, if we can say so. You can use it as a belt dildo without the classic belt, that is to say, without vibrations and therefore, without remote control. It’s a bit like having the non-vibrating Strap-on Me Bendable. And of course, you can use it with the wireless remote control to fully enjoy it.

For the remote control, you should already know that it works on a range of 10 meters! Well, it’s a gimmick, because if you use the Strap-on Me Vibrating Bendable, it’s because you want to take your partner’s pussy or his ass. Of course, if this is the case, you have the Strap-on in your pussy and you are never far from it. In a pinch, the remote control can be useful at the 10-meter range if you’re having fun together and you’re controlling the Strap-on’s vibrations without directly participating in the festivities. But then, that’s not really the kind of situation you’re going to encounter in most cases.

Otherwise, you understood it, but we are going to remind it here, the Strap-on Me Vibrating Bendable is a sextoy which will come to stimulate the vagina, in particular the G-spot, at the same time as the clitoris and all this at the same time as the G/P spots of the person who will be penetrated. It is thus a product quite as much usable by a lesbian couple or a straight couple for the practice of the pegging.

Which harness is it compatible with?

Often, with this type of sextoy that must be held by the perineum, a panty harness or boxer type is not superfluous. When it is a question of a vaginal penetration, it is simpler to achieve it without harness or with. But for anal penetration and therefore a pegging session, it is much more complicated. Unless you have a concrete perineum to keep the dildo in place while penetrating your partner’s ass, which offers more resistance than a vagina, the harness really helps to keep it in place properly.

Here, concerning the compatibility, you will have to pay attention to the size of the ring of your harness. I’m talking here about panty/boxer type harnesses precisely. On our side, we chose the L size. As a result, the shaft of the dildo is 3.6 cm (1.41″) at its widest, which leaves a wide choice of harness. It will fit perfectly with the Bella harness and Sasha harness from SpareParts. But also the Tomboi harness and even the Tomboi 2! And it’s also the case with the Strap & Bound Harness from Fun Factory or the Doc Johnson Panty Harness. If you have one, make sure it accepts a diameter of at least 3.6 cm (1.41″).

How to use the remote control?

It is a product that works with a remote control, I must tell you how it works. First of all, you should know that it is a battery-operated remote control! Yes, at a time when we are starting to find remotes that recharge via USB and that sometimes vibrate, here, it is a model that works with a battery already present. It’s a bit of a pity, because the product is quite recent and I would have liked to find a rechargeable remote control. By the way, remember to remove the cover under the battery to use it.

A remote control with 5 buttons

On this remote control, you have five buttons! Three buttons for the motors, with each time, a small diagram which indicates the motor in progress of vibration. We can thus realize that we can activate the motor present in the bulb. But also, the engine present in the area in contact with the clitoris and finally, an engine in the glans of the dildo. An LED indicates which engine is running and you can of course, vibrate the three engines simultaneously or independently.

What does each button do?

As for the buttons, here is how it all works! First of all, you have to turn on the dildo by holding the “power” button on it for 3 seconds. Same thing to turn it off. When the dildo is turned on, it vibrates twice and the LED lights up.

Then you can finally use the remote control. If you press one of the buttons representing each motor, you will activate the motor in question. If you press the same motor again, you change the vibration mode of the motor in question. So you can turn on one, two or three motors at the same time. Pressing the “+” or “-” button changes the intensity level. You can change the intensity level of each motor independently, but only one is activated. When there are two motors active, it changes the level for both at the same time.

A second model for the remote control

Yes, all this is thanks to Lovely Planet who contacted me about the Strap-On Me Vibrating Bendable products and to whom I could confide that the remote control of this model received was not working. So I jumped on the opportunity to inform them and I received another model to allow me to continue the review. At the beginning, it was a Christmas gift from espaceplaisir, I was not obliged to review it. But you know me, I like to review products for adults. So I received this second model which allowed me to make the remote control work properly. These things happen and I was able to enjoy the Strap-On Me Vibrating Bendable!

How to use it without the remote control?

It seems silly, but you should know that you can also use this strapless dildo, without the remote control and only with the “power” button present on it. Here, once turned on, you just have to press the button once to change the intensity of the vibrations of the three motors at the same time.

What are the proposed vibrating modes and intensity levels?

As for the vibrating modes and intensity levels available, you have three vibrating modes and three intensity levels. For the intensity levels, we have a first level that already sends good vibrations. Then, two levels above that. I could say it’s a “low”, “medium” and “high” level, but from the first level, it’s already vibrating pretty hard. There are three modes, in addition to the constant mode, which are rather jerky modes.

How does the body fitting part work?

For this part, I must say that I expected something else. Indeed, at the beginning, I had understood that the vaginal bulb had a memory system. In short, depending on your vagina, the silicone would take the shape of it. In the end, it’s not like that at all, and in a way, it comforts me, because I was sure that it wasn’t like a memory pillow either.

In fact, it’s the neck of the Strap-on Me Vibrating Bendable that has several states that are considered to be shape memory. And I have to say that this point is really important. In fact, the bulb can be positioned as we like. On the manufacturer’s diagram, you may think that there are only three positions, but in reality, you can place the bulb as you want. And it is true that once the position is chosen, it holds perfectly. We feel that there is a resistance inside to maintain it in place as it should be! It is really great!

What lubricant to use with it?

Then you already have the answer if you’ve been reading the website for a while! It’s a silicone product, so you should already know what kind of lube to choose! The answer is a water-based lubricant. This is to prevent the silicone in the Strap-on Me Vibrating Bendable from mixing with the silicone in the lube. Depending on what you are going to do with your product (vaginal or anal penetration), you may not use the same lube.

You can use Sliquid H2O or Sliquid Satin for a vaginal penetration for example. And for anal penetration, the Tyo lubricant from Motsutoys is not bad at all, or Sliquid Silk or Sliquid Sassy. But also, the anal lubricant UnisX from Espace Libido, reviewed a few months ago (french website).

How do I clean the Strap-on Me?

With an IPX7 standard, there is really no question to ask when you have to clean the Strap-on Me Vibrating Bendable! Simply run it under warm water with a little soap to make it healthy again. You can also use a cleaner. For my part, at the moment, while there is still some, I use the Sliquid Shine, which is really top!

Strap-on Me Vibrating Bendable efficiency

It’s time to give you our opinion! To tell the truth, it took us a long time to test it, because we received a first copy a year ago and then a second one, because the first one did not work with the remote control. But you should know that you can use it without the remote control and therefore without the motors if you prefer to use it like the Share or the Feeldoe. Nevertheless, we have tested both of them to see the difference and share with you our feelings! Here are our opinions on the Strap-On Me Vibrating Bendable!

Ergonomics and support

We have finally tested this dildo without harness with three motors! Already, in terms of ergonomics, it is really not bad at all! Indeed, we can fold it, especially the part with the bulb, so that it is more or less close to the part with the shaft or on the contrary, spread it in order to adapt to the morphology of each person.

This way, it will be easier to fit it inside the vagina without it falling out. Afterwards, this will also depend on your natural lubrication, because even if you can get it to fit and hold properly, it can tend to move and slip around a bit. With Kitty, we used the Lovehoney panty harness at the same time, which offers extra comfort and support. The good thing about this Strap-On Me Vibrating Bendable is the rigid yet flexible connection between the egg (the bulb) and the shaft.

The vibration system

This is one of the differences with the Share from Fun Factory or the Feeldoe from Tantus, to name a few. Even though you can set the vibration mode for each part, the intensity you choose for one motor affects all the motors. Is this really a concern? Basically, if you set the intensity level to maximum for the bulb, the intensity will be the same for the shaft. We would have liked to choose the intensity for each motor, but I think that all this would be complicated to manage with a small remote control like this one.

On the other hand, the fact of having three vibrating areas is really good! Indeed, sometimes, the vibrations are not necessarily well localized on the product, here, we have three distinct areas and in the good places. Moreover, the vibrations are quite qualitative, we feel them well, whether in the engine of the bulb, the part just before the dildo or on the glans.

The noise

Advertised at 50 decibels maximum, this dildo without harness is correct. We can’t say it’s quiet, but it’s not really loud either. Let’s just say that the noise is somewhere between that of a running fridge and the noise of a normal conversation between two people. Honestly, it’s not distracting in the heat of the moment. And again, you can always use it without the motors or just one of the three available motors for example.

The stimulation

We’ll give you our experience with this dildo without a harness! Kitty had decided to take care of my little ass. She had asked me to prepare the dildo, its harness and to put it on. Once in place, she ordered me to suck her dildo for a day. Well I must say that the dildo is too smooth, not soft enough to give a good impression of a penis. But in action, it was pleasant. Then she asked me to get on all fours and gave me the Brent Corrigan dildo and told me to suck on it while she started to push in the shaft of the Strap-On Me Vibrating Bendable, which I had carefully lubricated beforehand with Tyo from Motsutoys.

The beginning of the festivities

Kitty started to go back and forth and I started to suck on the dildo she gave me. I found the dildo to be a bit long. At the beginning, the penetration of it really pressed on my prostate. I had a sensation a little painful, but also really awesome. It was an in-between. Kitty wanted to fuck me in the ass and so the penetration was energetic, with the dildo fully inserted.

Small pain but huge pleasure behind

After shrugging off that little pain, I let myself go and I can tell you it was worth it. I was not allowed to cum at that moment, but without even masturbating, my penis was flowing. The pleasure was enormous, I could hardly contain my moaning, and I didn’t scream as much as I did at that moment. I must admit that Kitty could have made me cum like that without me masturbating.

On her side, the bulb was stimulating her vagina as well as the flat part before the shaft which was sliding on her clitoris. She was very excited too and it was nice to be able to share the stimulation together. We took a little break afterwards, then I told her she could fuck me again! This time we slipped on the Vixen Maverick dildo and Kitty fuck me just fine. But that’s another story.

Kitty & Mogwai

Strap-on Me Vibrating Bendable final thoughts

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To conclude, this Strap-On Me Vibrating Bendable is a very good model of dildo without harness! It adapts to the morphology with its bulb system that you can adjust. The connection between the bulb and the dildo is rigid enough to hold well. We can also take advantage of the flat part, just before the shaft to stimulate the clitoris. The vibrations are qualitative, the sextoy is compatible with a harness if needed and its effect on the prostate is just magical!

On the other hand, we find that it is not really made for a very energetic penetration, because its material being all the same rigid, that can be painful for the prostate, let us say between a small pain and an enormous pleasure! It is for us, a dildo without harness to go a little more gently, to make the glans slide on the prostate to make the penis of his partner flow! And don’t forget, it’s also a product for a female couple, it’s not only made for pegging! Certainly a product that we will use during our sessions!

Pros

  • Several colors and sizes
  • Three motors
  • Controllable by remote control
  • Ergonomic and adaptable
  • Stimulating for both partners
  • Holds well in place
  • Compatible with harnesses
  • Indisputable effect on the prostate

Cons

  • A little too long to penetrate wildly to the bottom
  • Identical intensity for each motor
  • The remote control, not very sexy
  • The packaging is rather average and uses a battery
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