Strap-On Me Silicone Bendable Dildo Review

Do you know the silicone bendable dildo? I’m sure you do! But are you familiar with the double density dildo from Strap-On Me? If it means anything to you, it’s because we published some time ago the Strap-On Me single density dildo review! So it’s the double density version that we’re going to review this time and with a bigger volume! Double-density dildos, you could discover a whole bunch of them! You have for example the Vixen range with for example the Vixen Outlaw, the Maverick or the Spur. But it’s also the O2 range at Tantus, with the Max O2, Cush O2 or Gary O2. Double density is simply a layer of silicone that is a little soft on the outside and a harder core on the inside.

It was Strap-On Me who contacted us to review some models! Knowing that we also have the Strap-On Me Vibrating Bendable, it was the occasion to ask for the other products of their range in order to offer you reviews of them. As you know, we have already reviewed a very large number of dildos, we are now at more than a hundred all the same! Yes, more than a hundred silicone dicks! Incredible all the same! But let’s stay focused on the mission of the day, to offer you a review of the Strap-On Me silicone bendable dildo!

Strap-On Me silicone bendable dildo packaging

As for each review published on the website, we start with the box. This is not the most interesting part, however, it is the first thing you discover when you receive the product. So we have a cardboard box, but not very thick, mainly white, rectangular and with the product in picture on the front side.

On the back, we discover several information about its possibilities and in particular the fact that it folds! On the edge, we can also see that there are several sizes for this dildo, with each time, the measurement of the diameter of the glans.

Once the box is opened, you can see the dildo housed in a plastic mold. It’s a pity to find plastic for the mold, because we know very well that plastic is not the simplest and cheapest to recycle. A rare thing, not to say unique, we have a small manual to use this dildo.

It’s very light in content, but it has the merit of being present, because from memory, I don’t think I’ve ever seen a little manual for a dildo. On the other hand, we have a satin grey storage pouch and that’s really nice to find, because once again, it’s quite rare with a dildo.

Strap-On Me silicone bendable dildo physical details

Visually, the Strap-on Me silicone bendable dildo is quite basic. We can’t say that it’s its visual aspect that will attract you in the first place, but rather its innovative function. As you can see on the pictures, it is a semi-realistic dildo, with a more pronounced glans than the rest, a smooth shaft and a heart-shaped suction cup.

Concerning the curvature of the shaft, we can say that it has several. Indeed, as I will develop it during this review, this dildo is modulable or should I say, adaptable or bendable of course. Indeed, we will be able to bend it to give it the shape we want!

Dildo size

Good news, the Strap-On Me silicone bendable dildo is available in four different sizes! When we reviewed the single-density model, it was size M! But this time, I wanted to go further and try a bigger model! At the same time, it’s not a surprise, I like big sizes and so does Kitty. So I chose the XL model!

Yes, we might as well take the biggest one! Note that the XL model is still 20 cm (7.87 inches) long with a diameter of 4.5 cm (1.77 inch)! It’s a beautiful beast as they say! The L version is 19 cm (7.48 inches) long with a diameter of 3.7 cm (1.45 inch). On the side of size M, it is 18 cm (7.08 inches) long for a diameter of 3.3 cm (1.29 inch). And finally, the size S, is 17 cm (6.69 inches) long and 2.7 cm (1.06 inch) in diameter.

But as you already know, on the one hand, some dimensions are missing, like the insertable length and on the other hand, I always calculate the dimensions on the side to be quite sure of the length and diameter that I’m going to put in Kitty’s buttocks and pussy. As far as the total length is concerned, everything is good. For the insertable length, we are about 18 cm (7.08 inches). And for the diameter, the glans is a little wider, but the shaft is 4.5 cm (1.77 inch) in diameter.

Other details of the dildo

In addition to being available in four different sizes, you have five colors to choose from! I hesitated a bit before asking for the caramel version! It’s a pretty nice color I think. But know that you can buy this dildo in black, chocolate, purple and vanilla according to your taste!

Regarding its weight, I did not find the information, but know that it is light. The inner part does not really impact the weight of the dildo it seems! It is well balanced, the dildo does not lean too much on one side or the other.

Strap-On Me silicone bendable dildo materials

That’s the heart of this dildo! As a reminder, double density is the fact of having two different silicones in the same dildo, one being softer than the other. So we end up with a less dense, softer silicone on the outside of the dildo. Then, at the heart of the dildo, a denser, firmer and more rigid silicone. This results in a dildo with which you can apply pressure and which will resist the back and forth, but with an outer layer that is softer, softer, and finally, a little closer to a real penis.

So we have a double density silicone dildo. Already know that silicone is a material that does not contain phthalates or latex. It is a healthy material for the body, hypoallergenic and non-porous. It is therefore a molded dildo, with a soft layer and a more rigid core. At the level of dust, the dildo does not cling too much to it. I’m not going to say it’s perfect, but frankly, it’s fine, it’s not a Fun Factory dildo.

On the other hand, in terms of density, it’s really great! We find a very soft glans, a soft outer layer and a harder heart! I must say that I like very much the double density of this dildo! And then this last one has a shape memory! Then there, it’s the highlight of the show! You can simply fold the dildo as you wish and it keeps its shape! I don’t know if it’s the same system as the Limba Flex M dildo from Fun Factory. Indeed, I don’t have the impression that it is exactly the same process. Here, we feel less the metal rod, it’s more malleable, in short, it’s a great surprise!

Strap-On Me silicone bendable dildo use

At Strap-On Me, double density dildos have a particularity, which is that they are shape memory. This makes it possible to have a very good adaptation to the morphology of each person who will use their dildos. It is thus a dildo which should allow several positions, it is now necessary to check all that!

What can you do with it?

Of course, you can have fun using it as a microphone in the shower to sing, but it’s not the best! Indeed, it’s much more fun and pleasant when you stick it in your vagina or ass! But we can also use it to train for blowjob or the deep throat! Attention, it is the XL model! In short, it’s a dildo, everyone knows what it will be used for!

Compatibility with harnesses

With a diameter of 4.5 cm (1.77 inch), this dildo is compatible with a good number of harnesses, but not necessarily the one you already have. For example, you can use it on the Lovehoney strap-on harness, it is the harness we used for pegging and the dildo just fits. It will of course be compatible with the top names on the market, like the Bella, Sasha, Tomboi, Joque or Théo from SpareParts! Remember that it has a diameter of 4.5 cm (1.77 inch) in size XL, so that it fits in the O-ring of your harness or the one you want to buy to go with this dildo.

Which lubricant to choose with?

As I always say, if you want to keep your silicone dildo as long as possible, you should not use a silicone-based lubricant. It is clearly a risk of having a mixture of materials. So you should use a water-based lubricant to avoid unpleasant surprises. Here, I let you choose, because it will also depend on what you are going to do with this dildo!

For my part, for anal, I will use Sliquid Sassy or even Sliquid Silk. It is possible to use the Tyo lube from Motsutoys or the YES BUT. For vaginal penetration, you can use Sliquid Satin, the Organics Natural or Organics Sensation version or perhaps a lubricant like Pjur Aqua.

How to clean this dildo?

Just like all the other dildos on the market! Just because it is a double density model does not mean that special measures need to be taken. You can therefore pass it in warm water with a little non-aggressive soap. There is the possibility to use a sextoys cleaner, such as Sliquid Shine. Otherwise the PureSan can also be used to sterilize this dildo, provided it fits well inside. You can also boil it at 100% according to the manual, it is also a good way to sterilize it.

Strap-On Me silicone bendable dildo efficiency

Now, it’s time for us to give you our feedback after using this dildo! This is a dildo that we both tested with Kitty. I took care of testing it for anal use and Kitty took care of the vaginal use part. That way, you will have our impressions on both sides, in both senses of the word! In short, it’s time to pull out the heavy artillery because we’d like to take pleasure and have orgasms with it! Here is what we think of this Strap-On Me silicone bendable dildo!

The dildo’s handling

With its heart-shaped suction cup, whether to use it by hand or without hands, everything is possible and simple! I used it for vaginal penetration on Kitty, using it by hand. It was at the same time as the Vixen Maverick dildo, the Brent Corrigan dildo and another dildo that we haven’t yet tested on the site! Yes, that’s a lot of dildos at the same time, but we like it!

By grabbing it by its base, its suction cup, the dildo is well housed in the palm of my hand. I can easily go back and forth in Kitty’s pussy. In a harness, its base acts as a brake and holds well in place. And for anal hand use, the suction cup works quite well. You can use it without hands or hang it on a wall using its suction cup. This one is not crazy, but it works quite well anyway.

The dildo in vaginal use

For vaginal penetration, it is a dildo that has its advantages! Indeed, with its pronounced glans with its bulge and its ability to bend to adapt it and give it the desired curvature, it is still a dildo that will be interesting to stimulate the G-spot! However, the glans is still quite soft, the stimulation will not be as effective as a more rigid model, made of harder silicone and of course much less than glass, wood or steel.

Kitty enjoyed this dildo, but nothing more! Its size is big enough to fill, but its smooth surface doesn’t stimulate as much as a textured dildo. So it’s a dildo that will still be used, but as a complement to another one for this type of use. That’s also what it means to have so many dildoes at your disposal! We becomes selective and demanding!

In anal use

Of course, with a double density like this and the possibility of giving it a particular shape, I really wanted to see what it could do for my prostate! Well, this dildo is simply a little wonder! One of my favorite dildos for my prostate, when I use it crouched, without hands, to really stimulate it, is the Thick Rick from Pride Dildo! Its glans is perfect for that. When I tested the Strap-On Me silicone bendable dildo, I found an excellent model for my prostate. The fact that you can bend it in the direction you want, make it take the desired curve, it’s magic! And on top of that, its suction cup works well!

Indeed, I was able to bend the dildo to turn it into a prostate star and make the glans come to press and put pressure on my prostate. Crouching down, I only have to make movements with my pelvis, back and forth to make the glans rub against my prostate. I can perfectly control the pressure and make sure that the dildo is perfectly positioned according to the position I adopt.

When I tested it, with some back and forth, without hands and without masturbating, I was able to obtain several big orgasmic climaxes, not to say some kind of prostatic orgasms. The pleasure was really intense, it was almost unbearable to feel the glans pressing and rubbing against my prostate. In spite of this, I still wanted to slide it intensely back and forth until the dildo was pressing against my prostate. I even had my anus, which was succumbing to the pleasure. I wanted to cum and at the same time I wanted to keep the dildo moving. After a while, I started to feel some kind of orgasms from my anus, as if my ass wanted to ejaculate sperm, it’s very strange to say that, but I don’t really see how to explain it better.

During a pegging session

Of course, with a dildo like this, considering its performance in anal use in solo, I also wanted to try it during the practice of pegging with my dear and tender Kitty! I think we have covered all the questions concerning the use of this dildo with the Lovehoney harness panties in the review we have published. But to make it short, I can tell you that this dildo is really great!

The pegging session was really great and the curvature I applied to the dildo coupled with Kitty’s energetic back and forth was a success! I’m really surprised by this dildo, it’s really excellent in this area. I can’t say any more, it’s a real favorite for my ass. Moreover, I also sucked the dildo, it was fun, but I must admit that it is not in this field that it excels.

Strap-On Me silicone bendable dildo final thoughts

To conclude, this dildo is really interesting! For vaginal penetration, we do not find it excellent. It does what we ask it to do, we can fold it to stimulate specific areas of the vagina, but it is really not in this field that it excels!

On the anal level, this dildo is just magic! Even though I didn’t have ejaculatory orgasms because I didn’t masturbate at the same time, I was able to get anal orgasms, either from my prostate or my anus. And frankly, it’s quite rare, I really need to be in a certain physical and psychological condition. And there, I must admit that this dildo surprised me! It’s simply excellent, it’s a real favorite!